Quote of the Moment:

"Ben, you suck!"
"No Terri, you suck. I just stand there."
"OMG hahahaha!"

~Ben and I

Thursday, October 22, 2009

love is a behaviour

Thank you for showing me how much you love me, everyday!!



I don't know what I'd do without you. I don't know where I'd be now if it wasn't for you. You've given me so so much and still patiently endure all my whining and complaining and emotional unstability when I PMS. I know I have no real right to complain, and you know it too; so it makes me love you even more when you take my problems seriously and help me get over myself. Thank you, love.

Because you see; one can't just say "I love you," to a person and then proceed to ignore them or abuse them or take them for granted, then still expect them to believe it. You have to show your love, because love is a behaviour! But at the same time, you have to know when someone is saying that they love you without words :)


Bah I'm so soppy! Even I can't tahan my own mushiness!! Lol.




Of course, I'm a philosophy student so I can't agree that behaviour constitues a mental state (i.e. love). So I'm not saying that "love=behaviour and nothing else"!! that is not what I meant, at all
But I suppose I am somewhat a Behaviourist at heart. Or at least an Instrumentalist. Still, the sentimental part of me wants to be irrational and say that there's more to love and other emotions than the behaviour attributed to them. But this wasn't supposed to be a philosophical rant....

*shuts up*



Back to original topic! Thank you for treating me good, baby :D You're the best <3

1 comments:

Bren[D]Man said...

I kinda lost you at the 2nd last paragraph =P

Not a man of many words so... I love you too. =)